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Secret sin: a robber of intellectual capital and social intelligence



Secret sin is almost a common phenomenon in the life of an average Christians and the damaging effect is unquantifiable.  There are endless list of secret sins and many of them are not easily discovered by people around while some of them can easily be detected through symptoms.  Secret sin makes one live a double life which has great effect on one’s social interaction and intelligence. 

First, one tends to live different types of lives to different people and this makes one's character very inconsistent.  I once live under the bondage of secret sin for a long period and those who know me think I was brilliant but in actual sense my brilliance and intelligence was curtailed. I had lived in the sin of masturbation for a long time. There has been debate about the legality, morality and spiritual implications of masturbation. Some people justify it, some criticise it, while some are indifferent to it. First as a Christian it affects our worship towards God. Ones desires are always or often carnal depending on how often one masturbates. One is mostly concentrated on the opposite sex and the visible erogenous part of the opposite sex. One can easily be aroused by anything that connects to the opposite sex from panties, bra etc. and this is a madness of certain degree. At the extreme case of the spectrum is the obsession for pornography; films, pictures etc. One live in the constant desire of fulfilling ones desires and imaginations and even some married couples justifies their watching of porn by saying they are doing it to be able to develop skill and right techniques for their partners but it is getting the skill from the wrong place because most times one of the partner especially the male becomes insatiable and start looking for experience, experiment and exploit outside the marriage bed. It is a killer disease and thus robs one of intellectual assets as one is constantly focused on things that do not really matter.
If one was a book person or one is skilled in something, one’s desire and specialty drops because the appetite to do things and do them properly drops. The desire to read and read properly drops. These are not signs that are easily visible but the person involved deteriorate with time and even such people might become fearful of things they have competence in and have easily handled in time past. One’s social intelligence drops as ability to communicate ideas suffers because one runs between alternating emotion of stability and instability and this can lead to total emotional breakdown or even madness.
When one is a sinner one does not need to cover his sins or most of his/her sins thus social capital and intellectual capital lose are minimal but as a Christian one suffers those capital lose as it takes effort to sin and superhuman effort to cover ones tracks and in the process of covering ones tracks one live a double life and one get exposed to attack as one sometimes go beyond the boundary of spiritual maturity all in the name of appearing as spiritual to men. A thief is known as a thief but a Christian thief will take effort, energy, emotions, and intelligence and such effort could have been channeled to more productive, rewarding and satisfying activities. And the only thing that keeps us bondage under secret sin is lust of the flesh; the desire to be in Christ and be in the world at the same time. To enjoy the benefits of the two divides which often leads to pressing self-destruct buttons. Different attitudes follows such as malice, hatred, lies, deceit, envy, arrogance, unreachable spirit and these are attitudes people find easy defending because they are intangible sins. Accepting Christ allows the seed of life to be planted in us but one needs to give the seed of life room to thrive by giving it the enabling environment.  The illusion that once saved everything is settled creates the complacence of living in self-indulgence which can cumulate into total stubbornness. Such person flaunts spiritual knowledge or even knowledge of the bible while the inside is totally in a state of decay. Accept Christ that the seed of life might be sown in your life but let the seed of life germinate to terminate all other evil works and such nurturing involves reading the word, meditating in it and finally doing the word. The next is prayer and worship which always takes us to throne of grace. When we cannot do any of praying, reading, meditating and doing the word as well as worshipping, there is definitely a secret sin lurking somewhere
Peace

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