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Jesus want us to talk about Him, He wants us to lead people to Him. What we tell people about Him must be true. Our act and conduct must show we have had encounter with Him. Talk less and let your conduct show you have had encounter with Him. Now this is the real deal, you can't act it up, you will fail. Don't try to impress anybody because you will become a laughing stock. The only thing you need to do is follow Him. Follow Him until you become like Him. It is a journey and not a hundred meter dash. So don't act up as if you have no weaknesses or failings. People will see you fail and fall but it is how you rise up and follow after every fall and failure that will draw people to Him. Don't act up too holy or too perfect, just follow Him. As you follow, you will get transformed all the way. The more you look at Him and follow, the more your natural tendencies fall off. The more people see Him in you. Acting up make you look too good to b...

Love Notes, From He to He 3 (Continued)

Now that you are still reading, I want to teach you love. Now you need to really learn this. You need to be patient. You need to understand that though I sent these notes, the person who interpreted them is not perfect. If you endure the imperfections, you are well on course. Now if I communicate my own love language you would not understand understand, but I want you to listen to me. Hear of my own experience, my contact with love. I had some women in my life, I have never encountered such compelling love from mortals. Now let my digress before I go into that. I had some good and powerful disciples, one of them wrote about love, yes he practiced it. His writing was compelling, I inspired it but I had to teach him love in a very hard way. That is why I want you to learn love from women. These women like I was saying we're different. In all my works, travels and business engagements they were always there for me. They cooked for me, they attended to my needs yet t...

MR NICE GUY, DO YOU CHARGE FOR YOUR TALENT?

Recession has taught me a great deal. That is a blessing of hard times. I once found it very difficult charging people for my skills and talent. Are you also in that trap. You are just too nice and too good to do that. You want to be ‘Mr Nice Guy’, you want people to love you. Yeah that is noble but your bills are looking at you in the face and you are dying in silence while trying to please few people. Now this is the deal breaker , when the next friend/customer comes, charge him or her. If he or she refuses to pay, move on and look for the next customer. While waiting for the next customer, do yourself a big favour, hone your skills. Why you don’t charge or scared to do is because you have not honed your skills. You have the talent but people don’t trust you yet. The moment I started charging fee, I know I can’t afford to do crappy jobs. I charge people for writing CV, cover letters, company documents, blog post etc. I have been earning money on the side. I star...

Love Notes, From He to He 2 (Continued)

Hey boy, since you just heard my name again, how do you feel. You want to stop reading. Yeah I understand but I think you should know better. You have heard some dude talk about me. Those dude are ‘scallywags’. Yeah, that is the way they behave. They chant Jesus like imbeciles. They disturb you with their noise. When you approach them with a problem, they have no mind of their own. They just chant Jesus like they are paranoid or senile being. But now you are here again. Another ‘scumbag’ is delivering you another note from me but all you are doing is looking for something to put you off. You will definitely find one. His handling of the package might not be to your specification because you did not order for it in the first place. I sent it to you, so leave how he handles it to me and focus on my notes to you. Let my investment in you count because I know you are not stupid. My dear friend read between lines. If you claim to be half as wise as you are, please read betwee...

Love Notes, From He to He

No woman is immune to Love No woman can resist the power of poetry She does not need to understand all the turenchi or the ajasas, She might not understand what roses are meant for, but she understands the color of love Tell her a love story, let it be about her and you (Don’t mind my English, she comes first here) Speak poem to her, let it be about the paradise you can both create. Awaken the love in her, buried underneath the consistent heartbreak and hurt you have caused her. Awaken the giant that is bruised, battered and defeated when you could not shelter her. Let your words be the house she dwells in. Let it caress her body and soul and you will see her spirit come back to life Hey wait a minute. How can you do all this. It is a full time job. She has got to eat, so you need to be busy with work. She does not need your food or money, her food is your love. But you need to learn from the best lover boy. He needs to first cares...

The Love Your Enemies Need

Well to be candid I don't know who my enemies are.  Maybe I don't have one or I am just blind to the fact that they exist. Am I arrogant?  OK, I just wish I could apologise.  Now most times those we call enemies are those who critic us, those who make life hard and unbearable for us, those who see no good in us,  those who make us feel inadequate or inferior. We don't have our ways easily with them. They always see things differently. Now think of them.  I mean think of those in that category. They just make your heart sink when you see them. You misbehave in their presence because you are trying to impress  them.  You are trying  to rise above the picture they paint about you.  You succeed in doing this for sometimes, then that your achilles caught up with you over and over.  Your mediocrity overcomes you. You are just back in the same spot. The message you keep hearing is they are responsible for where you...